BLUETHREAD READERS TALK BACK

 

On Sun, 14 Sep 1997, a reader wrote:

Dear Cy:

I just discovered your website, Bluethread, and am going to explore it indepth as time allows. I have been very concerned about several things that have been happening in the arena of Reform Judaism. One is, and it seems to be true on the little I saw on your website, that there are things that Reform Judaism stood for that are now not only disregarded in surveying the history -- but are being denied even in worship. To not recognize these, is to distort the history of Reform Judaism:

Examples of what has been obliterated:

(1) The call to a mission of ethical monotheism, a universalism that would bring healing and understanding and transcendence to all people, not just to Israel (eretz Israel and K'lal Israel.) This was the call of my childhood, in a reform Rabbinical household.

(2) The aesthetic of the sanctuary, a place to pray, meditate, free of superficial pomp and pageantry, where architecture, music, language, and (yes) dignity combined to foster a meditative and contemplative, spiritual combined to foster a meditative and contemplative, spiritual atmosphere.

(3) A sense of awe, a feeling of reverence within the sanctuary, a sense of being within a holy place.

(4) Music, some of which came out of the synagogues of Central Europe, has been replaced, breaking continuity with my own identity and past.

Today, when I enter my own synagogue, I find no place to pray. My meditations are interrupted by children running around and people socializing. Good that the synagogue is a house of assembly, even better that it is a house of study and discourse. But, where can I go to pray?

Today, too, I find an interest by many in the Jewish renewal movement (of which I am a part) but find it ironic that the universalism of Buddhism is regarded as something new. Reform Judaism was based on universalism and renewal. We had that in our movement.

There are many things that have happened in Reform Judaism that are good. There are many changes I have made in my own life regarding my Jewish identity (or my quest for identity) that I would not alter. But I would like not to lose the beauty and the truths, the mission of that era.

We, who were raised as Reform Jews, also seek continuity with our past. There are Reform Jews who crave a place to worship and are alienated from today's Reform synagogue.

So what if some of the Reform changes were influenced by Christian (Protestant) practices. Jewish ritual, beliefs, customs, music, recipes, etc. have always been influenced by the dominant culture, from ancient times to the present. (Compare Sephardic v. Ashkenasic customs, ceremonies, music, dietary rules, and their origins!) The decorum of the Reform Jewish service may have been so influenced, but its content was still based on traditional Judaism. Read the writings of the early American Jewish reformers, and you will find a deeply felt quest for Jewish integrity and, yes, continuity with what they regarded as authenticity in keeping with their Mission.

Please-- do not lose the golden threads among the blue.

Bluethread responds:

Saturday, January 03, 1998

Dear Reader,

We are very happy to have received your question, because it forced us to spend some time reflecting on where we are coming from. Bluethread is trying to encourage thinking about a new balance between several concepts within Judaism, among them:

  • UNIVERSALISM vs. PARTICULARISM;
  • RATIONAL vs. RITUAL;
  • the desire to CHANGE and EXPLORE new options vs. RIGIDITY and UNWILLINGNESS TO CHANGE (sometimes expressed as TRADITION); and
  • a sense of BELONGING (to the dominant culture) vs. a sense of SEPARATION from the dominant culture.

The founding Reformers struggled with these ideas as they created the basis of what is today's Reform Judaism. We honor that struggle.

In a sense, the founders saw a door open that had never been open before. Many rushed towards that door, but for different reasons. Some desired to bring the best of Jewish culture and thought into the larger world; some wanted to participate in that world; some wanted to leave behind a culture which they perceived as too restrictive and which many of them frankly no longer believed in.

Your letter picked up on some of these themes and addressed some new ones:

  • ETHICAL MONOTHEISM; and
  • SEARCHING for a place to PRAY.

Here are our reactions:

ETHICAL MONOTHEISM is a general guiding principle of classical Reform. It is an attempt to define a path that reformers wanted to create between the beliefs of those traditionalists who later became "Orthodoxy" and those who were taking the opportunity of the open door to leave the religion altogether. Ethical monotheism went away from religious practice and focused on right action. For example, being honest became more important than not eating pork.

Bluethread believes that too much was discarded in the attempt to become modern and that one of the jobs of present-day Reformers is to reexamine our past practices and realign ourselves with that which is truly Jewish. We do not think that being honest is more important than not eating pork. We know that both are mandated by Torah and that many Reform Jews who have been culturally separated from Torah Study do not know that. It is our job to help Reform Jews become more informed and thus make informed decisions about the way that they choose to express their Jewish selves.

UNIVERSALISM is a Reform principle which shaped Reform lifestyle and religious practice so that it is more now like that of western Christian society. It was motivated by the desire to:

  • no longer be bound by the "restrictions" of traditional Jewish practice;
  • resemble, and be accepted by, the dominant Christian culture; and
  • package ethical monotheism so that more people outside Judaism could benefit by it.

It is the last that we believe is so important to you and we respect that. Even though we do not explicitly state it, you are correct in picking up a feeling that we are less universalistic than many classical Reform Jews. In our drosh:

Tzitzit and early Reform Judaism
http://www.exo.net/bluethread/fringeref1.htm

we list the desire for a universalistic orientation which did not separate Jews from all other peoples as one of the guiding principles of Reform Judaism. But we do not then express our belief that, in the zeal for universalism, at least part of the baby was thrown out with the bath water. Bluethread believes that Judaism is "a light to the nations," but we don't think it has to deny its character to accomplish that. The reverse, in fact, is more the case: only by being unashamedly true to original Jewish principles and precepts, which we as Reform Jews have a responsibility to continually interpret in a modern context, can we find anything to share with others.

Please look at our newest drosh:

Being Different / Being Holy
http://www.exo.net/bluethread/different/index.html

where we confront the issue of Am Kadosh and the positive and negative aspects of being separate from other peoples.

As to the influence of Christian practices on Reform Jewish ritual, you are correct that all cultures influence each other. This is a natural and even healthy process. However, there is a difference between adopting something because it is attractive to you and adopting it because you wish to be more like those around you.

For example, some early Reformers were in favor of moving Shabbat to Sunday. They were motivated by both types of reasons:

  • they wanted to realine the week so that Jews could reap the social and economic benefits of working when others worked and praying when others prayed;
  • they wanted to show that Judaism was a legitimate modern religion, not that different from Christianity, and certainly worthy of respect; and
  • they were under a lot of pressure to assimilate.

Over a century and a half later, we have more freedom, partially due to their actions and the opportunities that they opened up to the Jewish people. We have the freedom and the responsibility to reassess some of their decisions and Bluethread is a forum for doing just that.

One of the reasons we were so late in responding to your letter is that we took the opportunity to write to Rabbi Gunther W. Plaut to ask him his opinion of universalism vs. particularism. He replied:

Universalism was indeed a major component of "classical" Reform--often to the exclusion of particularism. A prime example of this tendency was Emil G. Hirsch, rabbi in Chicago at the turn of the century. Inter alia, he disdained Torah and raised the flag of "prophetic Judaism. Jewish peoplehood was declared primitive and Zionism was consequently condemned. The brotherhood of man, as the expression went, was seen to be around the corner and Israel would be its standard bearer. Hebrew was of no concern, neither was Jewish ritual. "Ethical monotheism" was the battle cry -- and a combination of idealism/assimilation/ignorance was the consequence.

All this is part of our Reform history. Now, in the honorable desire to "be more Jewish" we tend to chuck universalism altogether, for which there is no reason whatsoever. I see us standing on the firm foundation of our religion, as members of the Jewish people, as lovers of Israel -- and at the same time as pursuers of universal justice (which includes justice next door).

 

FINDING A PLACE TO PRAY.

It was difficult from your letter to discern exactly what was bothering you about your current synagogue. Except for the comments about musical styles and "children running around and people socializing" we do not know what you would like if you could design the perfect place for you to pray.

Reform, because of its commitment to change, does not have the comfort of immutable tradition. Change is the standard, possibly resulting in your feeling that there is no reliable, safe space.

In our synagogue, we understand that there are different tastes; we try to accommodate as many as possible. For example:

  • We are committed to restoring Hebrew prayer the service. We recognize that this will be difficult for many who were raised with English-only prayers. Our ritual committee is working on a long-range plan which includes Hebrew classes, and transliterations to ease the transitions.
  • Different services reflect different ritual styles. Friday night is more casual, with modern music and musical instruments. Saturday morning is more traditional.
  • We have two separate types of High Holy Days services, one shorter with less Hebrew and one longer with more Hebrew.
  • We have a monthly New Age meditative healing service.

As to children, we believe they are the heart, soul and future of the community and all of us are focused on them. We have a very strong B'nai Mitzvah program and celebrate over 52 such occasions every year. The children learn Hebrew and are trained and encouraged to lead the service with the hope that it will become one of their lifelong interests and skills.

One of the Bluethread editors, who came from a very repressive ritual background, actually loves to see children feeling comfortable enough in the sanctuary to run around and has also forced herself to schmooze during the service, just to throw off old habits. However, the running around is minimal because:

  • the synagogue provides free child care during services; and
  • every Saturday morning there is a separate children's service.

We also have a strong program that trains adults to lead prayers when the Rabbi and/or Cantor are away and are able to honor different styles of praying that way, too. So we feel there is plenty of room to accommodate different styles and tastes. Perhaps you can find a synagogue with more openness to your needs or get involved with the ritual committee at your present one.

Bluethread doesn't feel that we have all the answers, just the desire to continually explore the questions. Please feel free to continue this conversation. Your letter was both a challenge and an inspiration to us.


 

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